Boundaries for Pastors and Church Boards – Part 6
“Expectations are only valid when they have been mutually agreed upon.” – Peter Scazzero, Emotionally Healthy Spirituality
In part 2 of this series, I showed how job satisfaction is tied to feeling trusted and free to control how one’s work is done. This is true for pastors, staff, leaders, and volunteer workers. When we give someone responsibility for a job we must also give them the freedom and authority to accomplish the job. If we don’t, we are guaranteeing their frustration and poor performance. A failure here would be on the supervisor who didn’t grant freedom and authority.
However, because we are human, all freedom comes with limits. The limits of our freedom must be clearly defined or we will move out of responsibility into controlling behavior. No one likes a control freak!
Here are some questions to help you establish the Maximum Limit of Authority boundary:
Calling from God
- What are the limits on my calling from God?
- What am I responsible for? Which things belong to God alone?
- Where does my authority come from to follow this calling?
- Have others confirmed this calling? How?
- How am I displaying a humble, servant attitude?
- What is mine alone to determine, decide, create, or plan?
- Who is required to submit to my authority and in what areas?
- Who am I required to submit to and in what areas?
- What do I have NO authority over?
- What do I have SHARED authority over? With whom do I share this authority? How is this authority shared? How am I responsible to the other parties?
- What will get me fired for taking too much freedom or authority?
- If I am unsure about the limits of my freedom, who do I ask or what guidelines do I consult?
- What is the mutually agreed-upon process for correction?
- How and when will these boundaries be evaluated and redrawn?
- Where does our authority come from? How do we know? Do our workers agree?
- How will we know when we have crossed this boundary?
- What may we not approach? What belongs to God alone?
- Are we displaying Christ-like humility?
- How would we feel if others treated us like this?
Other Boundary Questions
- Am I being led by love?
- Have I prayed for holy indifference (wanting only what is God’s will and being indifferent to everything else)?
- How will my actions affect others?
- Can I be trusted with this authority? Do those under my authority agree?
- Am I making life and work better for the people under my authority? Or am I using them to accomplish my goals?
- Does this boundary line demonstrate grace?
- Is this Christ-like?
In the next post, we’ll bring everything together.
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